The Peace You’ve Been Looking For

A Buddhist guide to finding what really matters
Saturday 19 December, 10am–1.15pm (doors open 9.30am)
with Kadam Lucy James, Resident Teacher of KMC London
In the run-up to Christmas, many of us find ourselves searching: for the right presents, the perfect plans, a quiet moment to ourselves. Beneath it all, we’re often looking for something simpler, a peace that doesn’t depend on everything going right.
In this half-day course, Kadam Lucy James shares Buddha’s practical advice for finding inner peace. Through teachings and guided meditations on letting go of attachment, developing wisdom and cultivating love, we’ll learn how to ease the pressure we put on ourselves, let go of unrealistic expectations and focus on what really matters.
When we change the way we relate to our experiences and to the people around us, we can meet Christmas, and life itself, with a calmer mind and a warmer heart.
Everyone is welcome, whether you’re new to meditation or have been practising for years.
About the teacher

Kadam Lucy James is the Resident Teacher of KMC London. She is a senior teacher of Kadampa Buddhism, has taught extensively in the UK and USA, and helped set up many thriving meditation centres since 1981. She is a leading expert in meditation and is regularly invited to teach courses around Europe and the United States. For many years, one of her main jobs was to help with the editing and production of Venerable Geshe Kelsang Gyatso’s books, and she has engaged in extensive meditation retreat.
Kadam Lucy is appreciated for her deep wisdom, vast knowledge, lucid mind, and inspiring yet practical presentation of Buddha’s teachings and meditations. She is very skilled at explaining how to make these teachings immediately effective in our busy modern lives to help both ourselves and everyone around us.
Schedule
- 9.30am: Doors open
- 10–11.30am: Session 1
- 11.30am–12pm: Break
- 12–1.15pm: Session 2
- 1.15pm: Lunch
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