Don’t React, Respond: A Buddhist Approach to Conflict

Don’t React, Respond: A Buddhist Approach to Conflict
Friday 7 Nov 2025
7.30pm to 8.45pm
At Heruka Kadampa Meditation Centre, Golders Green
With Kadam John McBretney
Why do conflicts arise — and how can we respond wisely?
Whether in our personal relationships, at work, or in the wider world, conflict is an unavoidable part of life. But it doesn’t have to lead to anger, resentment, or division.
In this session, Kadam John McBretney will share how Buddhist teachings offer a fresh and transformative approach to dealing with conflict — both within ourselves and with others. Through meditation and practical insights, learn how to stay calm, communicate with clarity, and respond with compassion rather than react with hostility.
Discover how inner peace leads to outer harmony.
You will:
- Learn practical meditation techniques to stay calm during conflict
- Understand how mindfulness helps shift from reactive emotions to thoughtful responses
- Cultivate compassion and clear communication to transform difficult interactions
About the teacher
Kadam John McBretney is the Resident Teacher of Heruka KMC and has been studying and practising Kadampa Buddhism for over 30 years. Known for his joyful and down-to-earth style, he has a rare ability to make even the deepest subjects clear and accessible, guiding students effortlessly to develop lasting inner peace and wisdom.
Schedule
- Arrive & Relax - 7pm - 7.30pm
- Teaching & Discussion - 7.30pm - 8.45pm
- Refreshments - 8.45pm
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