A New Relationship with Suffering: Finding Real Freedom

A New Relationship with Suffering: Finding Real Freedom
Sat 16 May 2026 - Half-Day Course, 10am - 1.15pm
At Heruka Kadampa Meditation Centre, Golders Green
With Kadam John McBretney
We spend so much of our life trying — and failing — to avoid suffering, problems, and unhappiness. Yet despite our best efforts, unwanted situations continue to arise, from everyday frustrations like missing the bus to deeper pains such as conflict or loss. Because we believe suffering shouldn’t happen, we often meet difficulties with surprise, irritation, or discouragement.
By recognising suffering as an essential part of the spiritual path, we can gradually learn to relate to it with wisdom, confidence, and even appreciation, knowing that each experience is guiding us toward permanent inner peace.
- Learn Buddha’s practical methods for transforming difficulties into inner strength
- Discover the mind of renunciation — a joyful, courageous attitude
- Experience guided meditations that help you stay positive and calm, whatever arises
Everyone is welcome.
About the teacher
Kadam John McBretney is the Resident Teacher of Heruka KMC and has been studying and practising Kadampa Buddhism for over 30 years. Known for his joyful and down-to-earth style, he has a rare ability to make even the deepest subjects clear and accessible, guiding students effortlessly to develop lasting inner peace and wisdom.
Schedule
- Registration - 9.30am - 10am
- Session 1 - 10am - 11.15am
- Break - 11.15am - 11.45am
- Session 2 - 11.45am - 1.15pm
- Lunch - 1.15pm
The course is free for Silver members and above. Lunch is £6 for all.
Available live-streamed on Zoom for Silver members and above.
Upcoming Courses & Retreats

Upcoming Events
The Preciousness of Tantra: Gateway to Enlightenment
Sat 18 Apr 2026
Explore Buddhism: What Does Death Mean?
Sat 25 Apr 2026
The Power of a Calm Mind - Silent Day Retreat
Sat 2 May 2026
Inner Stability in Challenging Times - Guided Retreat with Gen Kelsang Tonglam
Fri 29 - Sun 31 May 2026
Explore Buddhism: What is the Mind and Rebirth?
Sat 6 Jun 2026
2026-06-13 Freedom from Fear and Anxiety
Sat 13 Jun 2026
A Buddhist Approach to Letting Go and Moving Forward
Sat 20 Jun 2026
Simple Steps to a Happier Life
Sat 27 Jun 2026
Summer BBQ & Relaxing Retreat
Sat 11 Jul 2026
Discovering Your Pure Self: The Yoga of Buddha Heruka Guided Retreat with Gen Kelsang Devi
Fri 14 - Sun 16 Aug 2026